Very surprising!!! Benny Blanco’s mother has detected the “marriage” signs of her son with Selena Gomez since 2019.
Benny Blanco’s mother sensed that her son had a “married” vibe with Selena Gomez since 2019.
Benny Blanco was reportedly encouraged by his mother to date Selena Gomez back in 2019.

Producer Benny Blanco said his mother had noticed the compatibility between him and Selena Gomez many years before they started dating.
In the latest episode of the podcast “Friends Keep Secrets,” music producer Benny Blanco openly shared details about his relationship with Selena Gomez. The talented producer revealed that his mother was the first person to notice the compatibility between him and the “Come and Get It” singer.
Benny Blanco recounted an incident from 2019, when he and Selena Gomez were working together on a filming project. At the time, the producer was still in a relationship. According to Blanco, his mother was present on set and unexpectedly made a comment about Selena Gomez.
“My mother said I should marry someone like Selena. She thought I should date a girl who had similar qualities to her,” he recounted.
Benny Blanco also admitted that he had a good impression of Selena Gomez from their previous collaborations. Although they maintained a professional and friendly relationship for many years, each time they had the opportunity to interact more, he felt a growing admiration for the singer’s personality.
“I’ve often left work sessions thinking that Selena is a wonderful person,” Blanco shared.
The producer of “Eastside” revealed that even his ex-girlfriend noticed the special way he mentioned Selena Gomez. According to Blanco, his ex-girlfriend later texted him to congratulate him and said she still remembered how he often made positive comments about Selena, even when they were just friends.
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco began their musical collaboration in 2015 with the songs “Kill ’em with kindness” and “Same Old Love”. Blanco co-wrote and co-produced “Same Old Love” for Selena’s second studio album, “Revival”.
Released in October 2015, “Revival” debuted at No. 1 on the Billboard 200 chart. It was also the first album in Selena Gomez’s career to have multiple songs reach the Top 10 of the Billboard Hot 100, and it also garnered three number-one singles on the Pop Airplay chart.
In 2019, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco collaborated again on the song “I Can’t Get Enough,” marking their first time releasing a product together as lead artists. In 2023, Blanco further contributed to the production of Selena Gomez’s single “Single Soon.”
After years of friendship and collaboration, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco officially started dating in 2023. The singer confirmed the relationship in December of the same year, before announcing their engagement at the end of 2024.
In September 2025, the couple held a private wedding ceremony in California (USA). Only after the wedding did Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco publicly share moments from their big day, bringing to an end a relationship that spanned many years, from colleagues and friends to life partners.