Vanessa Trump is “heartbroken” that her children with Donald Trump Jr. have a “new stepmother.”

Insiders Reveal the Intense ‘Anxiety’ Vanessa Trump Has About Bettina Anderson Becoming Her Kids’ Stepmom.

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While the Trump family is feeling a lot of love for Donald Trump Jr and Bettina Anderson after their surprise wedding, it seems Vanessa Trump is feeling a lot of emotions about the whole affair.

However, amid this anxiety, Vanessa is getting a lot of love from pals and family alike. “Vanessa has received so many flowers, cards, texts and other messages,” the insider said. “Vanessa is grateful, and she’s doing everything she can to get through this.”

Vanessa Haydon Trump attends Monique Lhuillier’s fall 2006 runway show at Bryant Park.Fairchild Archive/Penske Media/WWD

For those who don’t know, Vanessa and Donald Jr were married from 2005 to 2018, and welcomed five kids together. They welcomed kids named Kai Madison, born in May 2007; Donald John III, born in Feb 2009; Tristan Milos, born in Oct 2011; Spencer Frederick, born in Oct 2012; and Chloe Sophia, born in June 2014. Then, when she filed for divorce allegedly due to some financial issues, per People. However, they’ve remained cordial, and she’s also stayed close with the family.

Then, Donald Jr. was engaged to Kimberly Guilfoyle in 2020 after two years together, but they ended their relationship in 2024. Right after that, he got together with Anderson in Aug 2024 and engaged a year later. They married in May 2026.